Sorry Kitten Lady and the Cat Man of West Oakland, You Have It Completely Wrong About Feral Cats

Someone sent me a link to this video today. It’s called “Cutting Cats’ Ears? Isn’t That Mean?” Let’s go over all of the false information that is being spread in this video… I will FORCE myself to sit through it.

First of all, I really dislike how TNR is being portrayed as a cool and trendy and fun thing to do. It is NOT cool and it is NOT trendy and most of all, it is not something to be taken lightly! Due diligence should be done on ANY and ALL cats before ANYONE attempts to trap them for TNR. What is due diligence? It is research and analysis of the cat, its situation, its surroundings, the neighborhood, the environment, the colony, potential owners, etc. Too many people watch videos like this, learn nothing more about feral cats, and then the first time they see one, (or a stray) react with a conditioned response without even thinking about what they’re doing.

“If you see a cat with an ear tip, you can be sure that that cat has been spayed or neutered.”
You cannot be 100% sure that the cat has been spayed or neutered, it could have gotten into a fight which damaged the tip of the ear. You can only assume that most of the time it is a sign that the cat has been spayed or neutered.

“A cat that has been born and lived outside most of its life, doesn’t want to live inside.”
This is completely false. All of my cats were born and raised in nature by other cats. They all wanted to live inside and now do so happily without any desire of going back outside. In fact, a cat that has been born and lived outside most of its life, is super APPRECIATIVE of being inside because they are safe and no longer have to deal with predators, parasites and unkind humans. While this might not be the case for ALL of the feral cats, it is certainly the case for SOME of them, and maybe even MOST of them. More feral cats would have warm, safe, and wonderful homes if misinformation like this wasn’t being perpetuated.

“These cats don’t want to be snuggled.”
Another false statement. These cats do want to be snuggled and pro-actively seek snuggles once they have a human caregiver that they interact with and trust. Nobody wants to snuggle with some random stranger on the street. Why would a cat want to do that?

“If you find a cat that’s in pretty good condition while it’s already outside, that means it’s got a food source and it’s going to be fine when you put it back out.”
This statement REEKS of lack of due diligence as discussed above. We should NOT be encouraging every random person (and in YouTube’s case, mostly kids, teenagers, and young adults with NO cat trapping experience) to take it upon themselves to trap cats that they “find” and put them back out. If cats are going to be trapped for TNR, it needs to be done CORRECTLY by people who have experience and knowledge with doing it. And it needs to be done AFTER the cat, situation, environment, etc has been sufficiently surveyed. TNR that is done by people who have not learned how to do it correctly causes unnecessary trauma and injury to the cat.

This flippant video treats a serious and important topic that affects the health and lives of feral cats like it’s some kind of a joke, especially with all of the laughing and silly props and glasses. TNR is not a fun party game and it should not be treated as such. Doing so encourages the abuse of animals.


Lucky Ferals is a cat family vlog starring Stella, her boyfriend Boo, their sons Splash and Simba, and their older relative Hydrox (all formerly feral cats). Guest stars include Ditto, other feral cats from the local tribe, raccoons, possums, skunks, deer, geese, squirrels, birds, groundhogs, bugs, and more. Join them in their daily adventures. Tune in for cat product reviews, cat food reviews, live streams, giveaways, and lots more.

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  • what a great inofrmative site. I am a dog lover, had cats as a kid but am starting to get interested peaked by the Youtube site andinfo. Thank you very much for your knowledge and kind heart.


  • I started watching Lucky Ferals when Stella, the Mommy Cat, chose to live an indoor life protected from outdoor forest rough life. Then, her son’s quickly and eagerly followed. Now, after one year of successful socialization and choosing to be rescued, panther Daddy Boo is an indoor cat and is carefully living with his family as a feline leukemia cat. All 4 cats eat the best well researched nutrition. I’m learning a lot from this channel for my own cat’s well being as well as dispelling myths about feral cats. There is still one cat who prefers the outdoors but eats nutritious food and has lots of heated and cooled shelters to live in. Who knows? He might change his mind, but the choice his totally his.

  • Hi- I have been subscribed and watching your channel for at least a year and I absolutely love it! Thank you! You educate us and show the right way to deal with a feral cat whether friendly or not yet there. You do so much and my tv is on your channel 24 hours a day! I don’t care if I watch the same thing over. I crack up you are so funny with them and I loved when you were able to speak with that woman who connects with cats! 100% truth thank you for sharing your life with us. I don’t think you understand how much joy and hope you bring! Thank you again! Kristi Madsen

  • Oh one last thing I forgot to mention! I have never liked “Kitten Lady” she’s ignorant and doesn’t have a clue about half the basics let all knowing about TNR . I’m sorry but I tried watching her a couple of times and she makes my skin crawl